Dominance Unlocked

A one-day workshop for Doms and Dom-curious

 
 

Dominance does not look one particular way. It is not tied to a personality type or a certain aesthetic. It is a space you step into, shaped by the way you choose to lead and connect. This workshop is designed to help you discover more about what your Dominance feels like in a way that is real, grounded and true to you.

Across the day you will explore the traits and instincts that make up your Dom self and learn how to recognise that shift into authority with confidence. You will look at what draws you to the Dom/sub dynamic, what you want from it and how to create a connection that feels good for both you and your submissive.

Together we will unpack consent in a clear and practical way, including how to hold it, protect it and negotiate it. You will also learn simple tools using protocol and ritual that can help you build focus, shape a scene and guide it with intention.

The workshop finishes with space to ask questions, share insights and tap into the experience in the room. You will leave with a stronger sense of yourself and the skills to start putting your Dominance into practice.

Content

What you will walk away with:

  • A clear sense of how to find and understand your dominant aspects, with a focus on curating your dominant self.

  • Practical ways to build grounded confidence, authority and presence that feel like yours, not a performance.

  • Skills for connecting with a submissive in ways that create trust, clarity and deep mutual satisfaction.

  • A firm understanding of consent, what it is, how it functions, what it is not, and what to do when things go wrong.

  • Tools for navigating consent issues, repairing trust and negotiating with confidence and nuance.

  • An understanding of how protocol and ritual can shape power, focus and atmosphere in your dynamic or scenes.

  • A simple introduction to scene structure, how to build it, hold it and guide it with purpose.

Presenters

Presented by Aleni DeViate
Aleni is a co-founder of Studio Kink and a cornerstone of the community. Active in the scene since 1999, she is widely respected for her confident, grounded and instinctive approach to Dominance. With decades of lived experience across play, dynamics, education and community leadership, Aleni brings a powerful blend of compassion, authority and intuition.

Her facilitation style is warm, sharp and insightful. She is known for helping people uncover their Dominant presence in ways that feel embodied, authentic and sustainable.

With a special guest appearance by Mark DeViate
Mark is a co-founder of Studio Kink and an internationally recognised kink educator, performer and Dominant with more than two decades of experience. Mark brings precision, humour and practical mastery of energy, intention and connection. His approach to Dominance is grounded in consent, clarity and authentic expression.

Requirements

All Dominants, Dom curious participants and Top-leaning switches are welcome, across all identities and styles. It would be beneficial to have some foundational exposure to kink or Dominance.

Lunch with purpose

Lunch is catered by a social enterprise that creates opportunities for refugees and people seeking asylum.
Each participant receives an individual lunch box containing a wrap or slider, salad and dessert. Halal is standard, with vegan, vegetarian and gluten free options available.

Tickets

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Dominance Unlocked FAQ

Is the workshop accessible?

Yes. Dominance Unlocked is designed with access in mind. Your presenter understands that kink spaces need to support a mix of minds and bodies.

We offer:

  • Encouragement to stim or step back whenever you need

  • A calming quiet room to decompress

  • Physical segments that can be adapted to all levels of mobility

If stairs or mobility are a barrier, email before booking so we can arrange access via an assisted entry point.

You’re welcome to bring your own Auslan interpreter. We also recommend The Deaf Society for kink-friendly interpreters.

We honour Companion Cards. Email to arrange a free companion ticket.

Contact sydney@studiokink.com with any questions or to make access arrangements.

How much Dominant experience do I need?

It’s not about how long you’ve been doing this, but whether this workshop is the right fit. Dominance Unlocked is not a beginner class. If you’re brand new, check out our Introduction to BDSM workshop first.

If you’ve done your research, dipped a toe in, or spent years exploring your dominant self, you’ll find plenty here to challenge, deepen and connect.