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BDSM Sunday

Sunday 25th November

One day, three in-depth classes.

The Graceful art of Submission

11:00am to 12:30pm with Aleni DV8

A submissive’s survival guide.


“You must like being told what to do” she said, I laughed because clearly, she didn’t know me.  I hate being told what to do, and yet, I identify as submissive to my dominant partner. - Aleni

There is a grave misunderstanding about what submissiveness is, how it is expressed and what it means and although Aleni doesn’t have all the answers, she has a hell of a lot to say on the subject. 

Coming this Kink Sunday Aleni speaks to her experience and explorations as a submissive, the conclusions she draws and the application of her experience in forming her identity and world.  She incorporates how she defined her limitations, remained connected to her own needs, avoided self-abandonment, developed confidence and self esteem and stopped being a doormat people pleaser, all from recognising and embracing her submissive aspects.

Aleni has been practicing lifestyle BDSM since 1998 when she first took up residence as second girl in a kink household and hasn’t looked back.  She is currently slave to Mark De Viate, her partner of 17 years, and identifies as fem dom.  Join us as she lays her decades of experience as a submissive bare as she describes not only her own journey, but the evolution of submissives in the Sydney scene over the last 20 years.


Sensual and Sadistic Wax

1:30pm to 3:00pm with Precipice

Drip…drip…drip

Who has ever dipped their finger in a puddle of candle wax?

Depending on your technique and choice of supplies, wax can be anything from sensual to sadistic.

In this hands on class, Precipice will walk you through everything you need to know to safely explore wax play. This workshop will be demonstrating a large variety of techniques (who would have known there is more to it than just lighting a candle and letting it drip???). We will also discuss the very important safety aspects of how to avoid something going wrong and what to do if something does go wrong.

Don't forget...what goes on...must come off. There are many ways of incorporating wax removal into play. From a journey into tension and trust, through to a breath catching, heart racing crescendo of sensation.

There will also be an opportunity for participants to test out and get some hands on experience with several techniques.

Drip…drip…drip…splat



D/s Dynamics by Mark DV8

3:00pm to 5:00pm with Mark DV8

Throughout this year we have heard from Aleni De Viate and from Precipice Malum about their method and processes of dominance, whether it be protocol or random acts of domination their ways are their own and tap into their own personal wealth of wisdom, experience and personality.

It’s time to hear from Mark De Viate about His way of doing things and his thoughts on the matters of dominance and submission, Master and slave.

There are some things that travel with you wherever you go, they define you as a person and certainly define you as a dominant.  Mark De Viate travels with things like honour, courage, self-awareness and emotional maturity.  Ever since he entered the Sydney scene in 2001 Mark has had a polarising effect on the community.   During this session Mark will speak to his journey into the scene, his poly family and his theory on levels of dominance.


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